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		<title>How to Support TeachMeet Nashville</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 16:03:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jason Bedell</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p id="top" />As a teacher, I know how much teachers make and try never to ask people to buy or spend anything. When working with teachers, I try to always suggest free tools. I would like to ask  your help with getting TeachMeet going. There are several ways that you can help.</p> <p>First, you <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://jasontbedell.com/how-to-support-teachmeet-nashville">How to Support TeachMeet Nashville</a></span>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p id="top" />As a teacher, I know how much teachers make and try never to ask people to buy or spend anything. When working with teachers, I try to always suggest free tools. I would like to ask  your help with getting TeachMeet going. There are several ways that you can help.</p>
<p>First, you can sign-up to attend, volunteer to help out (We need help setting up, cleaning up, and making sure everything runs smoothly.), sign-up to present, or agree to facilitate a panel discussion, round-table discussion, or a workshop.</p>
<p>Second, you are able to donate if you would like to and are in a position to do so.</p>
<p>Donations of any amount will receive the following:</p>
<ul>
<li>Be listed as a supporter on the wiki, this blog, and all official literature.</li>
<li>Have a link to your blog or website included in all official literature.</li>
<li>The satisfaction of knowing that you helped a good cause.</li>
<li>An entry in a raffle to win 1 copy of Camtasia Studio, a $200 value.</li>
</ul>
<p>Donations of $150 of more will receive the following:</p>
<ul>
<li>All of the previously mentioned items.</li>
<li>The ability to have a table at the conference to present a product.</li>
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<p>Third, especially if you are not local and still want to help, you can help spread the word. The <a href="http://www.educatorsroyaltreatment.com/2010/02/teachmeet-is-a-great-idea-for-an-education-conference-started-by-tom-barrett-the-full-details-can-be-found-at-httpteachme-3.html">Educators Royal Treatment</a> recently ran a guest blog post about TeachMeet to help spread the word. If you have a blog, we would be honored if you would consider doing the same.</p>
<p>Fourth, you can email people you know who might be interested. You can write you own, but if you would like, here is one that I am sending out to many. Feel free to use or modify it.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">I would like to let you know about an exciting opportunity and would ask that you share it with your staff. We are planning, organizing, and hosting a TeachMeet Conference at the Nashville Public Library on April 1 and 2. If you&#8217;re not familiar with TeachMeet, see <a href="http://teachmeet.pbworks.com/">http://teachmeet.pbworks.com</a>. It&#8217;s a really cool idea where normal teachers host a conference for other teachers. Anyone can attend, anyone can present. It will be completely free of cost. I will be providing free lunch, some breakfast items, and refreshment throughout the day, as well as free ed tech giveaways.<br />
I would like to ask for the participation of teachers, librarians, and technology coaches in the conference. All school districts and libraries within driving distance are being invited with some people coming from as far away as Van Meter, Iowa. If you have time, feel free to take a look at the tentative schedule of events. All conference information is listed on our public wiki, <a href="http://teachmeetnashville.wikispaces.com/">http://teachmeetnashville.wikispaces.com</a>. Anything listed as a full presentation consists of 4 15-minute presentations. Micro-presentations are 7 or 8 7-minute presentations on a given topic in an hour, right after another. There will also be an interactive lesson planning workshop and more spontaneous round table discussions (see the Wallwisher page we just started: <a href="http://wallwisher.com/wall/tmnashville">http://wallwisher.com/wall/tmnashville</a>), and 4 panel discussions. If you could, please also help spread the word to other people you think might be interested in coming or presenting, even if they can only make 1 day. The event schedule is here:<br />
<a href="http://spreadsheets.google.com/ccc?key=0AhPMGG4VfjIOdFRoWldWel9TMzlha0ZwdmlrUzFLTUE&amp;hl=en">http://spreadsheets.google.com/ccc?key=0AhPMGG4VfjIOdFRoWldWel9TMzlha0ZwdmlrUzFLTUE&amp;hl=</a><br />
The conference is really a good deal. It costs nothing to come (other than asking the principal to take professional leave); educators get a good time, a free lunch, and some great free prizes. We are giving away 3 database subscriptions to Soundzabound royalty free music ($200 each), 5 copies of Camtasia Studio, a Windows/Mac program to make video tutorials ($200 each), and a $900 school wide subscription to Starrmatica, a company that makes interactive content for elementary schools. I believe that we will have the funding to but a netbook or a laptop, and an iPod Touch to giveaway as well. Anyone can win, but you have to come.<br />
I am also in need of presenters on any topic (check the wiki for a list of broad topics), participants and moderators for the panel discussions, facilitators for the round-table discussions and lesson planning workshop, and volunteers to help setup or clean up. You can sign up for anything on the wiki, or by emailing me (<a href="mailto:jason.bedell@cmcss.net">jason.bedell@cmcss.net</a>) or calling me (931-320-9582).<br />
Please invite any educators you know anywhere within driving distance. Parents, community stakeholders, and politicians are all welcome. I have some students coming on a field trip to participate as well. I think that if we are going to spend 2 days working on better ways to help students, that we should involve everyone we can.<br />
Lastly, we have a great keynote speaker coming in from Iowa. The Van Meter school district is an amazing distict that is doing great work in using technology to spur change. Recently they have lobbied congress and spoken before a group of 90+ superintendents. They have 1:1 laptops, have social networking integrated throughout their schools, and even use virtual reality to aid teacher. What is amazing, though, is that the whole district seems to be on the same page. The superintendent, high school principal, media specialist, and at least 1 teacher are all coming down to deliver a collaborative keynote.<br />
As always, if you have anyone questions, please contact me. Make sure you sign-up on the wiki to come, or email me. That way, we know how much food to buy. Again, the public wiki with full expectations and a tentative schedule of events is posted at <a href="http://teachmeetnashville.wikispaces.com/">http://teachmeetnashville.wikispaces.com</a>. There is a brochure that you can distribute to teachers you know here: <a href="http://drop.io/TeachMeet">http://drop.io/TeachMeet</a> (just click TeachMeet.pdf). My personal and work phones are below if you would like to contact me. This should be a fun, dynamic, and participatory conference unlike what many of us are used to. Everyone who wants to will be able to share and network. If you&#8217;re able, come out and have a good time.</p>
<p>Lastly, I know that there are many people out there much smarter than I am. So, if you have any ideas for things we can do to help spread the word, please let me know in the comments.</p>
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		<title>The Importance of Leadership</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Aug 2009 14:55:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jason Bedell</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p id="top" />If you have been regularly following my blog, I apologize for taking so long getting this last post out. As a teacher, this was my first week back to full time work and I’m still trying to find the balance that lets me write often.</p> <p>I was inspired to write this post <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://jasontbedell.com/the-importance-of-leadership">The Importance of Leadership</a></span>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p id="top" />If you have been regularly following my blog, I apologize for taking so long getting this last post out. As a teacher, this was my first week back to full time work and I’m still trying to find the balance that lets me write often.</p>
<p>I was inspired to write this post on Wednesday, which was our first full day as a staff. The day before school starts for students is usually a day that administrators use to prepare and motivate teachers. This is my fourth such day, with my fourth principal in two states. I should preface this by saying that I am extremely critical of administrators. I am more offended when I see laziness, hypocrisy, or incompetence in school administrators that most others simply because their actions directly affect the lives and development of, in the case, over 900 students and 100 teachers.</p>
<p>This was without a doubt the best first day that I have been a part of. There were several reasons for this that reflect the leadership capabilities of the administrative team. Two of the previous years consisted of about 7 hours of paperwork being read to us with some time to possibly prepare our classrooms. Last year was slightly better because the teachers were able to go to different stations to hear different people tell them the requisite information; however, it was still basically the same day packaged in nicer wrapping. This year was refreshingly different. If you read my post from July 30, you know my feelings on most in-services are less than optimistic.</p>
<p>The day started with each administrator sharing the personal story from their lives of why they do what they do. Sharing your testimony is tremendously effective in many situations. It can help you to connect with students in your class and to share the love of Christ effectively with others. Afterwards, the teachers did the same in groups, which promoted confidence in each other as well as started to build healthy working relationships.</p>
<p>Second, the administrators as a team modeled several aspects of both good leaders and good teachers. I like that they made a point to identify servant leadership by actually cooking breakfast for the staff and discussing how the idea can be beneficial in the classroom.</p>
<p>Overall, the day consisted more of activities designed to build relationships between colleagues, motivate the teachers, and bring focus to what is most important, helping the students. Also important, each school has to develop a school improvement plan for the state of TN. One critical part of that is the values statement. Usually, administrators assign certain teachers to a SIPS team that has almost full control over the school improvement plan and what goes in it. As teachers, we did an activity where we had to reach a consensus about what our most important values are and why. This encouraged teacher participation and buy in to the school and the mission. This is important to do with students as well. Giving them a choice over how things work in the classroom lets them feel like the classroom is theirs and, when that happens, they will want to participate and do well.</p>
<p>There are many aspects of leadership that cannot all be dealt with in a short post. I just want to highlight those that stood out to me. First, as was mentioned, we can only lead if our heart is in the right place and we are willing to serve our students and others faithfully. As it says in the Bible, “Jesus called the Twelve and said, &#8220;If anyone wants to be first, he must be the very last, and the servant of all&#8221; (Mark 9:35). Second, we have to lead by example and model what we want to see in others. I believe it was Gandhi who said “Be the change you want to see in the world.” If your example is sound and upright, others will follow it. Finally, we need to endeavor to lead the same lives in public as in private. We cannot optimally lead others when we cannot control our own lives and feel the need to hide it and put on a façade for the public.</p>
<p>Everyone leads sometimes; no one leads all the time. We should hold the leaders in our lives to high standards. It is imperative, though, that we keep a distinction between the leaders and the goal. I know too many people personally who have fallen because of trust in a leader without a foundation. For example, if I found out my pastor is cheating on his wife, I am not going to stop pursuing God and telling others about Him. If my principle decides to quit in the middle of the year (this actually happened), I am not going to lose sight of trying to reach the students. Leaders can help us to achieve goals, but they themselves are not the goals or our foundations. Leaders are human and all will at sometime let us down, as we will do to others. We need to be understanding of that and keep the leader’s failure to the specific context in which it happened, not generalizing it to a whole group of people.</p>
<p>At the very least, we are leaders in our families, and that is no small thing. Husbands and wives each have their own unique strengths. They must recognize that and mutually submit to each other. Keeping Christ as the goal and center of the marriage will help to keep them focused. Parents need to be examples and lead their children. We cannot expect school, church, television, and others to raise our children. We need to raise them up in the way that they should go so that they do not depart from it (paraphrased from Proverbs 22:6). No one can take on this responsibility for us. We cannot be effective leaders anywhere until we are effective leaders in our homes.</p>
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		<title>Who do our children look up to?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2009 00:28:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jason Bedell</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p id="top" />My wife is still in NJ and I didn’t have anything planned tonight, so I took a walk down the street to rent a movie from the RedBox on the corner. There didn’t seem to be much of substance, so I decided to rent more of an action movie. Usually my wife <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://jasontbedell.com/who-do-our-children-look-up-to">Who do our children look up to?</a></span>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p id="top" />My wife is still in NJ and I didn’t have anything planned tonight, so I took a walk down the street to rent a movie from the RedBox on the corner. There didn’t seem to be much of substance, so I decided to rent more of an action movie. Usually my wife and I compromise; I won’t rent many action movies and she won’t rent anything in the neighborhood of <span style="text-decoration: underline;">The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants</span>. Anyway, right now, I am watching the movie <span style="text-decoration: underline;">The Wrestler</span> starring Mickey Rourke as I had heard that Rourke puts in a quality performance.</p>
<p>Anyway, in the beginning of the movie, there are scenes of matches where Rourke’s character is literally shot with a staple gun on multiple occasions for the entertainment of the crowd. This made me think about who they were entertaining and why. I, like many men, watched professional wrestling as a kid; when you look at professional wrestling, one of the largest demographics is children and teenagers, possibly because they more easily buy into the scripted nature of the violence.</p>
<p>I am not trying to make a pariah out of the professional wrestling industry. Wherever one looks there are celebrities competing for our children’s attention: musicians, athletes, models, actors, etc… In many ways, society is even tougher on our daughters than our sons. Seldom is a picture published that is not grossly edited, no matter how thin the subject is. Females seem to be more susceptible to issues of body image and eating disorders and it should come as no surprise when we look at what is shown as normal on television.</p>
<p>One of the many problems involved in this situation is that these celebrities are merely human. Combining human frailty with large amounts of money and intense pressure is asking for failure and these people are bound to fail at some point. When they do eventually fail, we swarm to watch every detail of their failure like sharks smelling blood. There is a reason the popular television show is called “American Idol.” An idol, in the biblical sense of the word, is a false god. We, as a society, raise up these celebrities to be like gods to our children.</p>
<p>We need to consciously think about what we want to see in a role model for our children and then we have to endeavor to be the model that we want our children to follow. Role models start at home. As parents, we are the first and most important role models that our children will see. When they leave the house to interact with the world, they will look first to us to see how to do so. Second, we need to judge the role models that we let into our house. This is one of the reasons that my wife and I decided to cancel the TV in our house. We know that if we have it, we will use it and there is just too much that we do not want to let into our home.</p>
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		<title>Craziness or Quietude?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Jul 2009 02:20:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jason Bedell</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p id="top" />I like to be busy. I think it started when I was young. My father worked 6 days a week most weeks; he would leave very early, work long, hard days, and rarely complain. On Sundays, during soccer season, he would work 7 days a week as a referee. Since then, I <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://jasontbedell.com/craziness-or-quietude">Craziness or Quietude?</a></span>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p id="top" />I like to be busy. I think it started when I was young. My father worked 6 days a week most weeks; he would leave very early, work long, hard days, and rarely complain. On Sundays, during soccer season, he would work 7 days a week as a referee. Since then, I have always been busy. I started work at 11 as a referee, with my first taxable job at 14. Now, as an educator, I have a job that is remarkably time intensive. I am still going to grad school, working a second job at a drug store, and working a summer job in technology integration.</p>
<p>This last week has been interesting because of the lack of things that I have had to do. A little over week ago, I dropped my wife off at Nashville International Airport to go on a 2 week vacation to see our family in New Jersey. I had been scheduled to go to a conference in Minnesota for a degree that I was working on, but since I switched schools I no longer had to go to the conference. So, I am for the first time I can remember not taking classes from June until August 24. In addition, I had already taken off of work for the week of the conference, so I really did not have to work much either.</p>
<p>When I was young, my favorite thing to do was to have quiet time to read. Now that I have had quiet time in spades, I have had some time to reflect. There is much less personal time when married than when single. Now that we have a baby as well, I find that most days I get 10-15 minutes for my Bible reading, and that is often the only personal time that I get during the course of the day. When my wife and daughter are home it is rarely quiet because the house is filled with life. It usually revolves around the playing and babbling of my daughter or conversation with my wife.</p>
<p>I have lost most of the ability to relax. I ran out of things to do after about the 3<sup>rd</sup> day and while I kept making things up that I could do, it just felt like killing time. This time for reflection has made me appreciate once again how much I love spending time with my wife. I find myself missing our conversations, our walks, the things that we do together. I try to go for walks or rent a movie by myself, but it is not the same. I also miss playing with my daughter and watching her grow and learn. My wife tells me about how much she has changed in the last week alone and it truly is amazing.</p>
<p>More than once, during the craziness of daily life, have I wished for a few moments of peace and quiet; however, this experience has taught me anew to realize just how wonderful my family is. I will remember this and I hope that you appreciate your family as well. They are a gift of God that we can care for and be supported by. When we lose sight of that due to time constraints, frustration, or other worldly cares, it hurts both us and our family because we lose precious time together. It is not enough to be with our families physically; we need to be with them mentally and spiritually as well. We cannot take mental vacations from our family; they need us and we need them. We cannot get back any time that we lose so we must guard our time and heart so that we can make the most of the time that we have. If we do need some time to ourselves once in a while to recharge and be able to be more fully committed to our families, there is nothing wrong with that. It is not a sin or something to be ashamed of. Just be honest with your partner and be patient if your partner needs the same. We all need time with ourselves and with God each day. Getting up a few minutes earlier than everyone else for this very purpose helps us to find our purpose for the day and better serve our families.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Jason Bedell</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p id="top" />Welcome to jasontbedell.com! I hope that you find your time here both fruitful and enjoyable. My name is Jason Bedell. I am first and foremost a Christian. I gave my life to Jesus Christ in 2005. I want to see people transformed by the saving knowledge of Jesus and part of my <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://jasontbedell.com/welcome">Welcome</a></span>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p id="top" />Welcome to jasontbedell.com! I hope that you find your time here both fruitful and enjoyable. My name is Jason Bedell. I am first and foremost a Christian. I gave my life to Jesus Christ in 2005. I want to see people transformed by the saving knowledge of Jesus and part of my personal mission is to study to be able to spread His message more effectively and defend Christianity from the attacks that are coming from all sides.</p>
<p>I am also a husband and a father. I married my wonderful wife Bess on July 27, 2007. She is a very talented photographer and you can see some of her work on <a href="http://inhisimagephotos.weebly.com/">http://inhisimagephotos.weebly.com/</a>. On October 23, 2008, our daughter Eve Ilia came into the world and she is a wonderful gift. Bess and I delight in watching her grow and change.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-8" title="besseve" src="http://jasontbedell.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/besseve-150x150.jpg" alt="besseve" width="150" height="150" /></p>
<p>Lastly, I am a teacher librarian. I have been an English and reading teacher for the last two years and am transitioning into opening a library for a brand new high school. I love my job and my three favorite areas of work are helping individual students to navigate successfully through the teenage years and to love reading, finding ways to reach students through innovative teaching methods, usually involving technology, and equipping other teachers to be better able to reach students.</p>
<p>There is a reason that I put these roles in my life in this order. Although they all intersect – who I am as a Christian affects who I in my family and the workplace, who I am as a father affects how I look at my students, etc… – there needs to be clear delineations between the different roles in our lives so that they do not unduly interfere with each other. Our relationships with God are more important than any other relationship. While many men define themselves by their work, work should never be placed above family. After God, family is the most important priority. Work should contribute to the fulfillment of one’s personal mission, but work is not an end in itself.</p>
<p>What you will find here are my honest reflections on these roles in my life. I will recount things I learn from my relationships with my wife and daughter, things I realize on my walk with God, and my insights on teaching and technology. While I cannot guarantee brilliance, I can say with confidence that what you read will be honest and genuine. Please leave a comment on any post or always feel free to email me at <a href="mailto:jason@jasontbedell.com">jason@jasontbedell.com</a>.</p>
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